VIDEO: Today, we’re going to answer a 3 part question that came in from one of our Youtube viewers. From what type of rules we have in our relationship to talking honestly about being attracted to another person—we’re answering all of this viewer’s questions. She says she’s pretty open minded and transparent…but her man is […]
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By Skye Thomas When you’re searching for your Mr. Right, I want you to pay close attention to his laugh. It may seem odd for me to say that, but you can tell a lot about a man by his laugh. Real laughter is uncontrollable. For just a moment something strikes us as funny and […]
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VIDEO: The “C” word……”Counseling” can be a pretty taboo word in the African-American community. Do men have more of an issue with getting professional help than women? What does one do when they feel there are issues in the relationship that need the objectivity and skill of a trained professional but the other person says […]
By Kristin Denton Remember how your relationship was in the very beginning? You stayed up all night talking about everything – your dreams and desires and even the things that scare or embarrass you. But then, as the relationship went a long, you stopped talking about so much. Everything became so heavy and meaningful. […]
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VIDEO: Lately I have been arguing with my husband about how to make the children behave and how to stick to our budget. I am very exact when it comes to things but I think the problem is that I expect for him to handle situations the way that I would. I blow up on […]
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By Jen Anderson I come by my hot temper honestly. In more than 40 years of marriage, my parents have honed their arguing skills so well they could win an Olympic gold medal in couples bickering. Growing up, I was surprised that the neighbors didn’t interrupt their loud arguments to send them to neutral corners. So it’s no […]
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By Anthony Mullins How many times have you been faced with a difficult feeling or occurrence that you are reluctant to discuss with your partner? You probably thought, “If I just don’t say anything, I can get past it”? The problem is most of us can’t get past it. It simmers and swells until we […]
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By Margaret, Paul Ph.D. When partners are having problems, they often say that the problem is communication. What exactly does this mean? What are they trying to communicate? There are various reasons for communicating: 1. Sometimes we communicate to offer information about ourselves, such as, “I’m going out for a walk,” or “The dinner reservations […]
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By Margaret, Paul Ph.D. Research indicates that children would rather be yelled at than ignored. When prisoners are being punished, they are put in isolation, because being isolated is one of the harshest punishments there is – other than physical abuse. The silent treatment is a form of punishment, a way to attempt to control […]
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By Team BLAM Well, yesterday a show we flew out to LA to tape with Dr. Drew Pinsky aired and we are just so happy to have had the opportunity to work with this couple. Any time anyone lets us into their private lives we regard that as “sacred space” and a privilege. What millions […]
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Marriage Dress Code And Other Rules When Going Out With Your Boo
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: Today, we’re going to answer a 3 part question that came in from one of our Youtube viewers. From what type of rules we have in our relationship to talking honestly about being attracted to another person—we’re answering all of this viewer’s questions. She says she’s pretty open minded and transparent…but her man is […]
Pay Attention To The Sound Of His Laughter
/in Communication/byBy Skye Thomas When you’re searching for your Mr. Right, I want you to pay close attention to his laugh. It may seem odd for me to say that, but you can tell a lot about a man by his laugh. Real laughter is uncontrollable. For just a moment something strikes us as funny and […]
Please! Please! Let’s Get Counseling!!!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: The “C” word……”Counseling” can be a pretty taboo word in the African-American community. Do men have more of an issue with getting professional help than women? What does one do when they feel there are issues in the relationship that need the objectivity and skill of a trained professional but the other person says […]
Does The Truth Help Or Hurt Relationships?
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Kristin Denton Remember how your relationship was in the very beginning? You stayed up all night talking about everything – your dreams and desires and even the things that scare or embarrass you. But then, as the relationship went a long, you stopped talking about so much. Everything became so heavy and meaningful. […]
I Know I Nag My Husband….And I Need Help To STOP.
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Conflict Management/byVIDEO: Lately I have been arguing with my husband about how to make the children behave and how to stick to our budget. I am very exact when it comes to things but I think the problem is that I expect for him to handle situations the way that I would. I blow up on […]
The Sentence That Saved My Marriage
/in Communication/byBy Jen Anderson I come by my hot temper honestly. In more than 40 years of marriage, my parents have honed their arguing skills so well they could win an Olympic gold medal in couples bickering. Growing up, I was surprised that the neighbors didn’t interrupt their loud arguments to send them to neutral corners. So it’s no […]
5 Keys To Powerful Relationship Communication
/in Communication/byBy Anthony Mullins How many times have you been faced with a difficult feeling or occurrence that you are reluctant to discuss with your partner? You probably thought, “If I just don’t say anything, I can get past it”? The problem is most of us can’t get past it. It simmers and swells until we […]
Why Do You Want To Communicate With Your Spouse?
/in Communication/byBy Margaret, Paul Ph.D. When partners are having problems, they often say that the problem is communication. What exactly does this mean? What are they trying to communicate? There are various reasons for communicating: 1. Sometimes we communicate to offer information about ourselves, such as, “I’m going out for a walk,” or “The dinner reservations […]
How Do You Deal With ‘The Silent Treatment’?
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Margaret, Paul Ph.D. Research indicates that children would rather be yelled at than ignored. When prisoners are being punished, they are put in isolation, because being isolated is one of the harshest punishments there is – other than physical abuse. The silent treatment is a form of punishment, a way to attempt to control […]
Did You Miss The Ma’at’s Working With The Newlywed Couple On The Dr. Drew Show? Check It Out Here.
/in B Intentional NEWS, Communication, Conflict Management/byBy Team BLAM Well, yesterday a show we flew out to LA to tape with Dr. Drew Pinsky aired and we are just so happy to have had the opportunity to work with this couple. Any time anyone lets us into their private lives we regard that as “sacred space” and a privilege. What millions […]