By Lynella Grant Love Letters are a Sensuous Mode of Communication. A love letter to a sweetheart speaks more directly to the heart than any other form of writing. Words chosen for their emotional overtones feel like poetry. They spin a web of attraction that arouses and entices the senses. “Sensuous” is often used as […]
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2 VIDEOS: Do you see the possibilities of who or what your man could be but you feel like he is not maximizing his potential? Are you disappointed with his contribution to the family and to the world? Do you feel like your attempts to inspire him fall on deaf ears? Here, Ayize Ma’at shares […]
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By Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Clients often complain to me about interactions they had with a partner, friend, parents or co-worker. When I asked the question, “Why didn’t you speak up for yourself?” here are the most common answers I receive: “I want to keep the peace.” “I don’t want to rock the boat.” “I didn’t […]
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VIDEO: There are a lot of things that can contribute to the success and downfall of your relationship. One of the books that we’ve been re-reading lately is Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, and Susan L. Blumberg. They talk about 4 destructive patterns that can occur in relationships. Today, we […]
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By Briana Myrick A few nights ago, I watched the TV debut of the documentary Miss Representation on the Oprah Winfrey Network. It was a really informative documentary about the media’s misrepresentation of females. Newark, New Jersey Mayor Cory Booker made a comment that really gave me an a-ha moment: Men are taught to be […]
Many years ago, a friend of mine walked up behind another friend who had just returned from two tours of duty in Viet Nam with the Marines. The vet didn’t hear my friend until she was right behind him. His training kicked in, and he whirled and struck out with a karate chop. Fortunately, he […]
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By Dwayne L. Buckingham All women, including Black women, should be afforded the opportunity to achieve marital satisfaction if desired, regardless of the nature of their childhood experiences. However, decades of research have shown that childhood experiences can affect children throughout their childhoods, extending into their adulthoods. Previous research literature about the marital satisfaction for […]
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By Friedrich Asen People of two opposing ideas can stir up arguments and fights. It’s that situation when one thinks he has the right concept while the other one also believes he has the proper notion. Both of them would try to outsmart each other until one claims victory. Here’s an actual example. My spouse would sometimes buy me signature clothing. […]
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By Team BLAM We have hundreds of questions waiting to be answered and from time to time we share the question with you our wonderful insightful readers. 🙂 Please take a minute to respond to this wife who is considering leaving her husband. This question has not been altered at all. We give it to […]
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By Lana Moline Tonight at about 9:15pm, long after the kids are asleep and we’ve both showered, I’m going to holla at my man. It’s been a minute since we’ve had one of these talks and I just can’t wait any longer. With all the running, working and responsibilities of life maybe I neglected to […]
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When Was The Last Time You Wrote A Sensuous Love Letter To Your Spouse?
/in Communication, Love & Marriage/byBy Lynella Grant Love Letters are a Sensuous Mode of Communication. A love letter to a sweetheart speaks more directly to the heart than any other form of writing. Words chosen for their emotional overtones feel like poetry. They spin a web of attraction that arouses and entices the senses. “Sensuous” is often used as […]
Help Your Man Get Back In The Game Of Life & Hold That Man Accountable!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Communication, Conflict Management/by2 VIDEOS: Do you see the possibilities of who or what your man could be but you feel like he is not maximizing his potential? Are you disappointed with his contribution to the family and to the world? Do you feel like your attempts to inspire him fall on deaf ears? Here, Ayize Ma’at shares […]
Why Don’t You Speak Up For Yourself?
/in Communication/byBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Clients often complain to me about interactions they had with a partner, friend, parents or co-worker. When I asked the question, “Why didn’t you speak up for yourself?” here are the most common answers I receive: “I want to keep the peace.” “I don’t want to rock the boat.” “I didn’t […]
4 DANGER signs that WILL DERAIL your RELATIONSHIP
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Conflict Management/byVIDEO: There are a lot of things that can contribute to the success and downfall of your relationship. One of the books that we’ve been re-reading lately is Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, and Susan L. Blumberg. They talk about 4 destructive patterns that can occur in relationships. Today, we […]
My Husband Is Emotionally Constipated
/in Communication, Quality Time, Sex & Intimacy/byBy Briana Myrick A few nights ago, I watched the TV debut of the documentary Miss Representation on the Oprah Winfrey Network. It was a really informative documentary about the media’s misrepresentation of females. Newark, New Jersey Mayor Cory Booker made a comment that really gave me an a-ha moment: Men are taught to be […]
Build A Better You: Choosing To Respond Instead Of React
/in Communication, Conflict Management/byMany years ago, a friend of mine walked up behind another friend who had just returned from two tours of duty in Viet Nam with the Marines. The vet didn’t hear my friend until she was right behind him. His training kicked in, and he whirled and struck out with a karate chop. Fortunately, he […]
Can Black Women Achieve Marital Satisfaction? Participate In A Research Study Aiming To Answer This Very Question.
/in A Woman's Point Of View, Becoming One, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Dwayne L. Buckingham All women, including Black women, should be afforded the opportunity to achieve marital satisfaction if desired, regardless of the nature of their childhood experiences. However, decades of research have shown that childhood experiences can affect children throughout their childhoods, extending into their adulthoods. Previous research literature about the marital satisfaction for […]
Miscommunication In Marriage: The Root Of Your Problems
/in Communication, Love & Marriage/byBy Friedrich Asen People of two opposing ideas can stir up arguments and fights. It’s that situation when one thinks he has the right concept while the other one also believes he has the proper notion. Both of them would try to outsmart each other until one claims victory. Here’s an actual example. My spouse would sometimes buy me signature clothing. […]
Help! Depressed & Alone: My Husband Plays Video Games 98% Of The Time When He’s Home
/in Communication, Love & Marriage, Quality Time/byBy Team BLAM We have hundreds of questions waiting to be answered and from time to time we share the question with you our wonderful insightful readers. 🙂 Please take a minute to respond to this wife who is considering leaving her husband. This question has not been altered at all. We give it to […]
I Have To Holla At My Man
/in Becoming One, Communication, Love & Marriage/byBy Lana Moline Tonight at about 9:15pm, long after the kids are asleep and we’ve both showered, I’m going to holla at my man. It’s been a minute since we’ve had one of these talks and I just can’t wait any longer. With all the running, working and responsibilities of life maybe I neglected to […]