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By Ayize Ma’at
It’s very common to hear people complaining and expressing frustration over the space their relationship is in. Folks are always looking for the next available ear to unload their “dirt” in hopes that there will be some kind of kindred spirit connection around familiar chaotic circumstances. Unfortunately, while it’s VERY common to witness dating couples, newly weds, and established weds complaining, it is UNCOMMON to see people demonstrate initiative to make things better. I will acknowledge, as ignorant as it sounds, sometimes it’s comfortable living in chaos. There is a certain predictability, familiarity, and assuredness that accompanies staying in the space that you are in. However, I think that if we are REAL with ourselves, we are staying in the space that we are in, specifically as it pertains to our relationships….because WE’VE ACCEPTED A SPIRIT OF RESIGNATION. We’ve emotionally tapped out and quietly settled with the thought “it is what it is”.
No…no…no…no…NO! I emphatically shout that to men, women, and families that have chosen to take an apathetic approach to their relationships. HOW LONG WILL YOU LET YOUR RELATIONSHIP LINGER IN LIMBO? You go through your days accepting the next apparent move instead of being intentional and choosing the right move. Your relationship with yourself, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your fiance’, your spouse……DOES NOT HAVE TO STAY THE SAME. However, I promise you that YOU and the condition of your relationship will remain the same OR GET WORSE unless you do something different. I implore you to do something different…..stop lingering in limbo and live your love with intention. With a heartfelt nudge I urge you to CLICK HERE and GET LOVE RIGHT!