By Untouchable Gary
So I posed an interesting question yesterday about whether people would let their significant others answer their phones even if they had nothing to hide. As expected it received a mixed variety of reviews from both males and females.
Surprisingly, the growing consensus was YES they would allow their wife/husband or boyfriend/girlfriend to answer their phone with no reservations about. Some expressed that if you have nothing to hide then what’s the problem or that there should be no secrets between them. Another that I found cute was “well if I’m closer to it than they are then why not answer for them?”
If y’all know me by now then you know my response was like “What the HELL ARE Y’ALL THINKING!” Once you lose that little piece of privacy your S.O will want more. I even heard that if their phone is always on vibrate then they must be hiding something. Well maybe they are just tired of hearing the damn thing ring all the time. However, I will admit that if their phone is going off at 1 a.m. and it’s not you then that may be an issue.
Be advised that once they are answering your phone they will go thru text messages (maybe even answer a few), look at your pictures, check your emails (which are tied directly to your phone) and don’t forget about all your social media apps that are live and online. Heaven forbid someone happens to flirt with you that day that you have no earthly interest in, you will be in for quite a headache of questions!
I suggest that you ask before you just volunteer your secretariat services. Most often the answer will be yes anyway…unless they have something to hide. But always respect their privacy!!!