My Husband Says, “We Don’t Need To Talk To Each Other Every Day”.
VIDEO: I have been married since 2002. In 2004 something changed. We dont talk to each other or ride in the same car… even when we attend family events. We basicly live like roommates. He says couples dont need to talk to each other everyday…but he has no problem asking for sex. I have had a million conversations with him (one sided ) and he never has anything to say except, “I know”. We have gone months without talking . When I try to talk to him I get that DAMN “here she go again” look. So now, I think he just wants this to be over but doesn’t want to be the one who ends it . Yesterday I told him I was looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I didnt get an answer. I don’t know what else to do. I need advice ASAP.
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It sounds like he's cheating and trying to transition out of the relationship without informing you. Not speaking for months?? That's a red flag.
@The Ma'at's again excellent video. I love your perspective on things… I have experienced this same thing in my 22 year marriage and it all makes since now. @Brooke thank you for your advice too. So true give it all to God and keep the negative out out the conversation 🙂
It sounds like if your husband is responding with "I know" or the "here she goes again" looks, what you may be saying is filled with complaints and nagging. We use "I know" to shut people down without hearing what they have to say. We also give looks to dismiss concerns, etc.
If you are having sex, then you must be connecting in some way. My suggestion would be to save the complaints for God and to use your loving, fun, happy words when speaking to your husband. Meaning, use prayer to talk about every negative thing you have against your husband. Then be quiet and leave it there. If you have something funny, beautiful, thankful, grateful, or loving to share shower him with those things and watch your relationship heal. Also, don't forget to talk dirty during sex.
Let the words out of your mouth be a treat to him and he will want to hear more of them.
My recent post How to Strengthen My Relationship With My Husband
Great advice.?
GOOD ADVICE … KEEP IT UP . ONE THING I WILL SAY IS THAT IT SOUNDED LIKE FROM THE WOMAN ASKING THE QUESTION THAT SHE HAS TRIED TO FIX IT . SO I WILL SAY TO HER TO, IT'S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE NOT DOING… BUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO FIX IT . 🙂
-Dr G your? love coach
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