My Husband Is Addicted To GETTING Oral Sex But NEVER Wants to GIVE IT…Why???
VIDEO: My Husband is addicted to oral sex but refuses to give me the same pleasure. We have been together 6 years and have got married 2 months ago. I don’t know what to do. I love him but I feel if i can do it without a moments hesitation, he should be able to do the same.Can you guys help me?
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There has to be a root to his apprehension about oral sex. Communicate, ask questions and listen to him. Everything has a root honey. GL 🙂
no more mbj for him… deprive me and ill starve him of it…
Glad to see this article. My boyfriend and I are having this problem and I am trying to determine whether to continue the relationship because it appears he believes he shold not have to put in the effort if he’s not into it.
If you have allowed this one-sided behavior for six years then I think you have enabled your husband's selfishness. Communicate and seek therapy. I believe you are going to need it. Best of luck.
I say talk about it
Communication is paramount!!!
Communications is the key along with God’s guidance.I know a couple going thru the same situation,but divorce.He wouldn’t comprise or talk about it.Marriage sex should be free and honest towards each other.Marriage is a comprise on both ends.For 6 years it was known that your partner would not perform oral sex,so that should have been the first priority conversation before the marriage.Maybe a therapist can help or a lot of prayer.Try food,edible oils,books,and maybe sensual showers.Please talk to him and not at him about the situation.Tell him your true feelings and maybe he will listen,try it.Really handle the it with god in mind so the negative energy won’t enter into the relationship.If he doesn’t agree with you then you have to do what’s best for you.Praying everything works out for you.
Great advice you two. "keep pushing" y'all
You’ve been doing this for six years with no reciprocation? Wow. It’s hard to believe, but there are still men out there that don’t do it, and it’s a shame. You’re married now, and I guess you have to ask yourself if you want to spend the rest of your life “half pleased” and not completely intimate in bed. If you haven’t over the course of the past six years told your husband that you want or need this … then you need to immediately. If you have and he has not tried to respect you … then you need to decide how important this is to your intimate relationship with your husband, and find a way to make it work. Marriage is a ministry … a partnership … if one of you is giving and not feeling like you are receiving, it can only lead to negative energy between you. Well wishes!
Okay … I’m like half way through the moderators’ response, and … wow. This situation between you and your man has existed for six years by your account. You’ve stayed with him this long, and you have allowed this. You have contributed to the frustration that you seem to feel in this way … by allowing your man to receive without giving. You can’t change him or his preferences. This man has been someone you have wanted to spend your life with for six years now. If I were in your position, I would try to engage him in a conversation to explore his aversion to oral sex. I would not offer him reasons to continue not doing it, but I would offer him suggestions as to how it might become a pleasurable experience for him, and I’d definitely express to him how much you are pleased by oral sex. I would invite him to experience the unparalleled pleasure of the numbers that equal 15, and rekindle the fire that burned between the two of you when sex was new and all you two wanted was each other. I wouldn’t belittle him or diminish his feelings about the matter. I’d incorporate some of the things that are mentioned in other articles posted on this site … introducing food & intimacy, keeping romance alive, and especially the article on validating the feelings of your partner whether you understand them or not.
Good luck Sis!
the ending of this video was cute and had me smiling, love? the chemistry between you two
the fact that he is greedy means that he def does get it anytime he wants. she needs to hold out and see if he would be willing to do it. if? he doesnt want to satisfy you that is a problem.
I agree…communication is the major issue here. Once you know what the problem is you can work to correct it. I also want to know if this was an issue prior to marriage? Is this a recent? issue or did you settle? Be honest with yourself so that you be honest with him.