Stop Focusing On Sex. Start Focusing On Yourself.

VIDEO: A lot of times when we focus on something obsessively the issue is rarely the thing that we focus on but rather an underlying longing. In this video we speak to a man that thinks women are not attracted to him because he’s ugly. He’s tired of being rejected and feeling like the dirt underneath women’s feet.

It is sooooooooooooooo important to understand that any time someone is experiencing a feeling chronically (chronic=continuing over a long time and happening frequently) IT IS ALMOST ALWAYS A MAJOR INDICATOR THAT THE PROBLEM LIES WITHIN meaning it’s our own perception and consciousness that is tripping us up not the world around us. Our desire is for this advice to inspire this young man and so many others to look within for the answers instead of continually outside of himself. We encourage you to start the process by purchasing our SPEAK LOVE RIGHT PACKAGE.  The first exercise in the workbook is all about taking self inventory and asking the question, “Who Am I?”

At the end of the day, no matter how our issues manifest….no matter what they look like… matter how complex our situations are: Self-Acceptance & Self-Love are always the answer. Radical love of self is always the bottom line.





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12 replies
  1. tchelle1000
    tchelle1000 says:

    LOL that was hot….. Great advice! I hope the brother is open enough? to receive it. I mean hello none of us are living a perfect life it's all about balance. That letter is an insult to God-he made us now.. what he made is not good enough. It's beauty in everything.That letter is a testament that he has no faith. Hell I am a grown woman and not one man that I have ever dated treated me well. But I keep pushing and believing that in all this chaos that God see's me and is adding up my blessings!

  2. pbg98pbgpbg98pbg
    pbg98pbgpbg98pbg says:

    Even if she thinks your unattractive, another? woman will find you attractive. Just keep getting involved in activities and meeting new people.

  3. K.O.
    K.O. says:

    I think your advice is right on point. The two of you are absolutely awesome inspiration! Love it and love ya'll!

  4. allwaysreadytwo
    allwaysreadytwo says:

    Studies have indicated that as the frequency of rejection increases, the more insurmountable our goal appears to be. Psychologist Jessica Witt at Purdue University found that after a series… of missed field goal kicks, players perceived t…he field post to be taller and narrower than before. However, after a series of successful kicks, athletes reported that the post appeared larger than before. It is easy to witness the power of rejection. The more we encounter rejection and the more we view our efforts as pointless, the less we try and the farther away true love seems.

    Adoree Durayappah, M.A.P.P., M.B.A.

    Psychologist, writer
    Posted: February 23, 2011 08:40 AM

    5 Scientific Reasons Why Breakups Are Devastating

  5. sarah1484
    sarah1484 says:

    That was good!?

  6. ebonyrose316266
    ebonyrose316266 says:

    great? advice!

  7. srystr77
    srystr77 says:

    I think that confidence is key to attracting the opposite sex. They (women you approach) may be feeling your insecurity and they may also be feeling an underlying creepy sexual vive coming from? you. For me myself when I feel that a man is approaching me with a sexual energy and tone I feel repulsed. I think it is your approach, looks in the grand scheam of thing really do not matter. CONFIDENCE! CONFIDENCE!

    • Goo
      Goo says:

      I agree…lots of men approach me with that creepy sexual vibe saying "hey sexy" or hey cutie" and I don't respond to them, then they get upset and curse me out. Women do not like a man approaching them out of no where. We prefer to be in a situation where we can get to know one another, for example taking a class or doing an activity that interest you. Maybe his goal should be to put himself out there and try different things and experience different things and in that he will learn about himself and gain confidence.

  8. mba2ceo
    mba2ceo says:

    Ugly & poor = single

    Nothing U can …? do about it.

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