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Ask The Maat’s (Videos)

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  VIDEO: My question is… If you know in your heart of hearts that you are not “in love” with your spouse but rather have more of a “brotherly / care taker ” type of love for them, and that you initially got married young and for ALL the wrong reasons. Is there possibily a [...]

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By Team BLAM We’ve said on many occasions that relationships require hard work. Sometimes, (i.e., a lot of times!) we seem to forget that as human beings and want everything to go our way. We don’t understand why we have to endure so much friction. Our question to you is: Why not? Anything worth having [...]

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VIDEO:  Hi, here’s my situation. I met my friend who’s like a mother to me son recently. Ok I really didnt see it as a set up because I was trying to stay out of the” I THINK EVERY MAN I MEET IS MY HUSBAND” area. So we were introduced and it went well. I was nervous [...]

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By Team BLAM   Hey guys. I recently found your videos on youtube and I must say that I love watching. It is very informing and inspiring to watch the two of you. Now I am having some issues and need your advice please. So I am 20 years old and single (by choice of [...]

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The past two weeks have been both physically and emotionally draining.  The Ma’at’s are pooped.  But tired and all…we’re never to tired to give thanks.  About 10 years ago we learned a chant…”Aum aim duau Sebek” which loosely translated means Thank you God for the hard things because the hard things make me stronger.  Yall, [...]

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Hello…I wanted to ask you guys a question after watching you on YouTube. I am going to give you a little background into ourmarriage. I have be married for 5 months and I am beginning to reach my breaking point and I don’t know what to do. After being marriedfor 1 month, I discovered that my new husband was on dating websites [...]

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I’m Struggling With Same Sex Attraction Part 3

May 3, 2013
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letter Cont’d My saving grace… After prayer and much conviction, I sought out one of my other good friends ( a godly woman, that lives her life according to the word). I confessed my sins to her and explained what I was going through and she was very understanding and referred me right to the [...]

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Thank You For Your Prayers…Surgery Was Successful!

May 2, 2013
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What’s up Fam, Thanks for all of your prayers.  The surgery was successful and Asante is doing well.  He’s on pain meds (epidural) right now which will be gradually reduced over the next couple of days.  Today was his first day of physical training which consisted of getting out of the bed : )  Thanks [...]

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I’ve Been Married For 4 Years and For 4 Years I’ve Been Cheated On

May 1, 2013
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  VIDEO:  My husband has been cheating 4 years out of the 4 years we’ve been married. I’ve been supportive to this man through all the ups and downs. He came into to the marriage with nothing and I help build him up to be stable. I never it up. However, this man just don’t [...]

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What Do You Do When Both Of You Are Weak?

April 29, 2013
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There’s been a bit of tension in the Ma’at home over the past couple of days.  I’ve been a bit grumpy and agitated by the slightest of things.  Aiyana has been more quiet than usual.  There’s been this uneasiness infecting the typically pleasant atmosphere in our home.  I raise my hand and acknowledge that I’m [...]

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