VIDEO: How many times in our relationships do we have petty squabbles about “seemingly” significant stuff that at the end of a well calculated day…..just ain’t that serious? Spats over who has the remote, where to go to dinner, who left the last dish in the sink are all common and normal in relationships. A relationship consists of two different people with different ideas and different ways of doing things so EXPECT DIFFERENCE. That’s # 1. Just expect it. #2—How do we deal with it? We could get upset, give the silent treatment, pick a fight (that will last like 3 days!), ask to “talk” when what we really want is to assert our way and force our partner to agree….we could fuss, groan, and moan and dwell on how it’s not fair that I have to deal with this….you know the rest OR we could get a little perspective, focus on what’s really important and declare: It just ain’t that serious! Whew! That’s freedom! Release yourself from the stress of self-induced agitation and irritation and have a “It just ain’t that serious day” today. You just might like it!
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