I’m Tired Of My Wife Asking Me To Have Sex With Her

LET'S GET REAL,A LOT OF MEN THINK AFTER MARRIAGE…THERE COME KNOW NO,YOU'RE MY WIFE,I LOVE YOU,NEXT MOVE,MAKING US WOMEN FEEL GUILTY,REASON UNKNOWN….IF YOU WANTED, SOMEBODY ELSE WILLL…WELL,AS A WOMEN ,HOW DO THAT MAKE YOU FEEL?..THEN AGAIN,IF HE KEEP TELLING YOU NO,WITHOUT A REASON,IT DON'T MATTER HOW LONG YOU TALK ABOUT IT,NO MEAN NO…IF THAT THE CASE,HE WASN'T YOUR SOUL-MATE,IN THE BEGINNING,IT'S JUST THAT SIMPLE ,MOVE ON…

You've really got me thinking about having positive influences in your circle who support my marriage. Having so many of my friends being divorced or separated, I've found that in trying to support the women and be there for them to lean on, some of them are bitter & hateful and I feel awkward saying good things about my relationship to them. Its like no matter what I say they are looking at me crossways because they feel its bound to happen to me too. i didn't want to distance myself from them because I didn't want to be one of those women who are only there for you if you're part of a couple, I just tend to not be as available. I know they want to vent, but its makes it harder on me to share good news. I've also had to learn the hard way to not share any dilemmas with them because they are so quick to say,kick him to the curb. Some have been married even longer than me.

Ok this topic takes us all back to this simple point of the matter of an idiot. What some of us men feel is such a problem in regards to your wife women girlfriend, "What you trow away will always be the next mans treasures", never forget this.

Men that feels this way should be alone for at least two to three years with just yourself. Men and women both whom get with one another for just sex will in the end come to this reality because there was nothing there from the beginning of real substance. Most that are in this kind of a relationship feels that the grass is greener on the other side, yo guess what. the real problem is "you".

Here is a prime example of when you fall for someone that only see sex as a driving force but not the person and what really makes them happy or their favorite color or love song. Oh yes the idiot guy or gal who say this to their partner. I will say this until my fingers can't move anymore to type, We have to get with people of real substance. Not someone that seem like they got game or some hot dude or girl with a big but.

These things run it course and after the thrill is gone this is what you get, emptiness, someone that has no clue about what sex and being there for your women really means.
Again is the grass really green on the other side or could it be that you whom say this needs to just be to yourself and leave women the hell alone because of your own mess or world you live in.

I will say this once more, What we as men throw away and ignore. another man will find this treasure and cherish it. As for the idiot guy, he will never find a real women of substance and one day when he's about 80 or 90 if he or she lives long enough. Then it will be too late to turn back time because that life you lead by abusing a women spirit was all a lie.

Guys like this are childish and selfish idiots, and needs a lesson on life and everything around them that is related to being with a women. A women is truly not a play thing. Women are our earthly companions that deserves respect and deep understanding and if any boy that calls himself a man have issues with this should stay single and never date.

So women be smart, lose the illusions that a thug, a bad boy or someone that is so dam cute , you just had to have him. Hey respect yourself, and get to know who this guy is before you open up to him in general. There are red flags everywhere if you made him wait long enough. If he has nothing of substance to talk to you about leave him where he stand and move on. this guys is a waist of your time and your life here.

Peace