VIDEO: Ayize is a bit perturbed in this clip because it’s almost 3am and Aiyana keeps messing up on the recording. She thinks it’s funny but I am not amused. She messes up one more time (what you don’t see is the 10 mess ups before that! :-\ ) before we start to flow and […]
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VIDEO: Remember when you and your sweetie were dating and you felt like your partner was flawless? You didn’t see or hear any of the “normal”behavior that makes your partner human. Well, in some households that lasts long after the wedding. In other households, not so much. Listen in as we discuss your level of […]
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VIDEO: Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt used? It may not have begun that way but over time the spark in the relationship fizzles as your partner leans on you so much it’s hard to stand. In this video we address a viewer who feels like her husband isn’t carrying his […]
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VIDEO: A viewer who loves feet wrote in asking us about foot fetishes & how to give a really good foot massage. Listen in and hear us talk about some of the interesting things we learned about podophilia (yup, that’s a real word)…smile…a pronounced sexual interest in the feet and how we take care of […]
VIDEO: Imagine this. You are living life, happy, engaged to the one you love and they drop a “Biggie” on you. The “Biggie” is the fact that they want to go to graduate school—AWAY to grad school. Do you suport them in continuing their education or do you request that they stay home and sacrifice […]
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VIDEO: When infidelity nearly kills your relationship, learning to trust again is challenging, hard, and gradual. The writer of this letter is guarded in her relationship and is wondering whether her relationship is worth salvaging after her fiance’ cheated on her. Can the trust be restored? He says he cut his “side chick” off and […]
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We recently came across a piece CNN did asking the question “Does the black church keep black women single?”. It was quite interesting and thought provoking on many levels. This piece was done based on an article written by Deborrah Cooper, relationship advice columnist for the San Francisco Examiner. Cooper feels that the black church […]
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VIDEO: Everybody wants happy and healthy relationships that they feel cared for and respected in. A lot of people define success as having exactly that. If everybody wants happy and healthy relationships why doesn’t everybody have them? Maybe it’s because as individuals we’re not bringing “happy and healthy” to the table…. If you want good […]
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VIDEO: The other day while hanging out with friends a conversation came up about sex. Some details were shared that made one of our friends wives uncomfortable. As she attempted to check her husband for being to open with the details of their last sexual encounter another one of our friends (a wife there with […]
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VIDEO: What comes up for you when think about college? Dorm life, new friends, term papers, parties, & commitment? A young man writes in sharing that he is in love and he and his sweetheart are about to go to separate colleges. He wants to know whether they should try to make a long distance […]
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I Need My Wife To Be My Freak…Not A Saint In The Sheets!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, B Intentional NEWS, Love & Marriage, Sex & Intimacy/byVIDEO: Ayize is a bit perturbed in this clip because it’s almost 3am and Aiyana keeps messing up on the recording. She thinks it’s funny but I am not amused. She messes up one more time (what you don’t see is the 10 mess ups before that! :-\ ) before we start to flow and […]
I Love You But You’re Waaay To Comfortable Around Me!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: Remember when you and your sweetie were dating and you felt like your partner was flawless? You didn’t see or hear any of the “normal”behavior that makes your partner human. Well, in some households that lasts long after the wedding. In other households, not so much. Listen in as we discuss your level of […]
My Husband Is Lazy…What Do I Do?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt used? It may not have begun that way but over time the spark in the relationship fizzles as your partner leans on you so much it’s hard to stand. In this video we address a viewer who feels like her husband isn’t carrying his […]
Foot Fetish?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, B Intentional NEWS, Sex & Intimacy/byVIDEO: A viewer who loves feet wrote in asking us about foot fetishes & how to give a really good foot massage. Listen in and hear us talk about some of the interesting things we learned about podophilia (yup, that’s a real word)…smile…a pronounced sexual interest in the feet and how we take care of […]
My Fiance’ Wants To Go Away To Grad School…What About Us?!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Love & Marriage, Singles & Dating/byVIDEO: Imagine this. You are living life, happy, engaged to the one you love and they drop a “Biggie” on you. The “Biggie” is the fact that they want to go to graduate school—AWAY to grad school. Do you suport them in continuing their education or do you request that they stay home and sacrifice […]
My Fiance’ Cheated But Swears No More
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: When infidelity nearly kills your relationship, learning to trust again is challenging, hard, and gradual. The writer of this letter is guarded in her relationship and is wondering whether her relationship is worth salvaging after her fiance’ cheated on her. Can the trust be restored? He says he cut his “side chick” off and […]
Does The Black Church Keep Black Women Single?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, From Across The Web, Love & Marriage, Singles & Dating/byWe recently came across a piece CNN did asking the question “Does the black church keep black women single?”. It was quite interesting and thought provoking on many levels. This piece was done based on an article written by Deborrah Cooper, relationship advice columnist for the San Francisco Examiner. Cooper feels that the black church […]
You Get Out What You Put In
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage, Quality Time/byVIDEO: Everybody wants happy and healthy relationships that they feel cared for and respected in. A lot of people define success as having exactly that. If everybody wants happy and healthy relationships why doesn’t everybody have them? Maybe it’s because as individuals we’re not bringing “happy and healthy” to the table…. If you want good […]
Is Sharing Sex Stories A No No When Married?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage, Outside Interference, Sex & Intimacy/byVIDEO: The other day while hanging out with friends a conversation came up about sex. Some details were shared that made one of our friends wives uncomfortable. As she attempted to check her husband for being to open with the details of their last sexual encounter another one of our friends (a wife there with […]
Can College And Commitment Coexist?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Communication, Love & Marriage, Outside Interference, Singles & Dating/byVIDEO: What comes up for you when think about college? Dorm life, new friends, term papers, parties, & commitment? A young man writes in sharing that he is in love and he and his sweetheart are about to go to separate colleges. He wants to know whether they should try to make a long distance […]