VIDEO: Ayize is a bit perturbed in this clip because it’s almost 3am and Aiyana keeps messing up on the recording. She thinks it’s funny but I am not amused. She messes up one more time (what you don’t see is the 10 mess ups before that! :-\ ) before we start to flow and get to the issue at hand. Here, we answer a guy who writes in about how frustrated he is with his “closed minded” wife in the bedroom. He wants the freak to come out at night…and she’s not feeling it.
Men and women are wired differently when it comes to sex and there’s no getting around that. But, what does one partner do when the other partner is rigid and reserved in the bedroom and they are the exact opposite? Is it their job to loosen their spouse up so they can feel free to explore sexually or should they just simply respect where their spouse is and accept that this is the way it will be…til death do them part?
If a couple is not in sync sexually do you think they are bound to have major problems that will eventually threaten their bond? Have you experienced a similar issue in your relationship? How did you handle it? Or maybe you’re dealing with a similar scenario right now…weigh in and leave a comment or submit a video response letting us know what you think.