By Ayize Ma’at In the marriage counseling and coaching work that my wife and I do with couples from around the country, I’m frequently asked, “How do you know she’s ‘the one’”, or “How do I know when I’m ready to get married?” Sometimes when I hear these questions it’s hard to keep a straight […]
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By Ylonda Gault Caviness “…And they lived happily ever after.” You’re smart. You know life is no storybook. But admit it: Somewhere deep in your subconscious lurk romantic visions of Cinderella. The images may be sketchy and a little outdated, but you can still make out the silhouette of the bride and Prince Charming riding […]
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There’s so much healing, joy, pleasure, gratification, and peace of mind that comes with being loved unconditionally and loving completely that I wish everyone WOULD experience it. We intentionally use the word “would” because we KNOW it’s possible and realizable if you’re willing to put in the work. Unfortunately most people won’t put in […]
By Al-Lateef So what is it about her? Ladies, if you’ve asked a man this question, chances are you’ve already answered it many times over. It’s not something you necessarily had to verbally convey (sometimes), but more times than not, it’s just certain things about you that don’t translate well when a man wants a […]
First and foremost we at BLAM want to say congratulations to Sheryl Swoopes on her engagement. We truly wish you wedded bliss as you journey the road less traveled to deepen your understanding of self through marriage. We always say that marriage is for grown folks and that ain’t no lie. If you allow it..marriage […]
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By Neysa Ellery Taylor My husband cheated on me and I’m a better wife because of it. Yes, you read that right. My husband cheated on me and I am a better wife because of it. It’s true. But before sisters start rolling their eyes, let me first back up a bit. No one deserves […]
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By Ilex Bien-Aime A few weeks ago my wife and I watched two movies. The movies were titled “No Strings Attached” and “Better Than Sex.” The premise of “No Strings Attached” is that the two main characters would begin a sexual relationship that would continue but only if they remained true to the promise of […]
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How many times have you made a subtle sexual advance toward your wife only to be confronted by blatant rejection? How many times have you winked at your husband or kissed your husband only to later find him sulking because he misconstrued your playful flirting? How many times has he asked, “When was the last […]
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Team BLAM “Shacking up” used to be considered a social taboo, however it is quickly becoming an acceptable “norm” in today’s American society. According to U.S. Census data..there has been a 25% increase over the past 10 years of couples living together before tying the knot. Why the increase? Is it a reflection of a […]
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By Ilex Bien-aime Relationships are difficult. It’s two people from different backgrounds and life experiences trying to come together as one. There are so many things and influences that are involved in making a relationship work. Though not every couple will struggle with the same issues, one issue seems to be universal – most of […]
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Gentlemen, You Are NOT Ready To Get Married IF…..
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One, Black Men/byBy Ayize Ma’at In the marriage counseling and coaching work that my wife and I do with couples from around the country, I’m frequently asked, “How do you know she’s ‘the one’”, or “How do I know when I’m ready to get married?” Sometimes when I hear these questions it’s hard to keep a straight […]
Stop & Read NOW. 8 Things No One Tells You About Marriage
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy Ylonda Gault Caviness “…And they lived happily ever after.” You’re smart. You know life is no storybook. But admit it: Somewhere deep in your subconscious lurk romantic visions of Cinderella. The images may be sketchy and a little outdated, but you can still make out the silhouette of the bride and Prince Charming riding […]
Forgiveness: 10 Steps To Freedom
/in Becoming One, Conflict Management/byThere’s so much healing, joy, pleasure, gratification, and peace of mind that comes with being loved unconditionally and loving completely that I wish everyone WOULD experience it. We intentionally use the word “would” because we KNOW it’s possible and realizable if you’re willing to put in the work. Unfortunately most people won’t put in […]
She’s. Not. You.
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One/byBy Al-Lateef So what is it about her? Ladies, if you’ve asked a man this question, chances are you’ve already answered it many times over. It’s not something you necessarily had to verbally convey (sometimes), but more times than not, it’s just certain things about you that don’t translate well when a man wants a […]
WNBA Star Sheryl Swoopes Announces She’s Engaged To A Man.. 6 Years After She Publicly Announced She Was Gay
/in Becoming One, Black Women, Love & Marriage/byFirst and foremost we at BLAM want to say congratulations to Sheryl Swoopes on her engagement. We truly wish you wedded bliss as you journey the road less traveled to deepen your understanding of self through marriage. We always say that marriage is for grown folks and that ain’t no lie. If you allow it..marriage […]
My Husband Cheated On Me And I’m A Better Wife Because Of It
/in Becoming One, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Neysa Ellery Taylor My husband cheated on me and I’m a better wife because of it. Yes, you read that right. My husband cheated on me and I am a better wife because of it. It’s true. But before sisters start rolling their eyes, let me first back up a bit. No one deserves […]
Ladies…The Exception IS NOT The Rule
/in Becoming One/byBy Ilex Bien-Aime A few weeks ago my wife and I watched two movies. The movies were titled “No Strings Attached” and “Better Than Sex.” The premise of “No Strings Attached” is that the two main characters would begin a sexual relationship that would continue but only if they remained true to the promise of […]
The Older The Woman….The Better The Sex…The Older The Man The More Comfort In Cuddling
/in Becoming One, Sex & Intimacy/byHow many times have you made a subtle sexual advance toward your wife only to be confronted by blatant rejection? How many times have you winked at your husband or kissed your husband only to later find him sulking because he misconstrued your playful flirting? How many times has he asked, “When was the last […]
“Shacking Up” Is No Longer Taboo
/in Becoming One, Singles & Dating/byTeam BLAM “Shacking up” used to be considered a social taboo, however it is quickly becoming an acceptable “norm” in today’s American society. According to U.S. Census data..there has been a 25% increase over the past 10 years of couples living together before tying the knot. Why the increase? Is it a reflection of a […]
Your Ex Is Your Past…..LEAVE THEM THERE!!!
/in Becoming One/byBy Ilex Bien-aime Relationships are difficult. It’s two people from different backgrounds and life experiences trying to come together as one. There are so many things and influences that are involved in making a relationship work. Though not every couple will struggle with the same issues, one issue seems to be universal – most of […]