By Ilex Bien-Aime I hear men complaining about damaged women all of the time. If you were to listen to most men, you would believe that we are always the correct and sane sex, while women are crazy and always wrong. Too bad life is never really that black and white. Long before the book […]
By Aiyana Ma’at Okay, so pardon my profanity in the title of this article. But, that’s how I really feel. I haven’t said much in response to the book “Is Marriage For White People” by Stanford Law Professor Ralph Richard Banks. The book has received a whole lot of press and Professor Banks has gotten […]
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By Tzvi Nightingale Not long ago I heard about a couple who were calling it quits and getting a divorce. They are not new in their marriage. In fact, they have been married for many years. The gentleman explained to me that it was not over anything dramatic such as an affair or significant change […]
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By Lana Moline Tonight at about 9:15pm, long after the kids are asleep and we’ve both showered, I’m going to holla at my man. It’s been a minute since we’ve had one of these talks and I just can’t wait any longer. With all the running, working and responsibilities of life maybe I neglected to […]
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By Thesigan Nadarajan It is the hope of the author that this article will be of theoretical and practical use to the readers (especially those who are married) to understand that marriage stability is not only possible but attainable. However, it requires couples to work together as partners to make their marriage a stable and life-long experience. […]
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By Ilex Bien-Aime I always strive to be transparent with my wife but I realized that maybe I am not being transparent with myself. Maybe it’s easier for me to point out all of the negative traits that she brings to the table and inadvertently gloss over my own. Could I be the one who […]
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Courtesy of The Pastor Rudy Experience My encounters with racism and intolerance came early in life. When I wanted barbecue, I would have to go to the widow at the rear of John Davis’ Barbecue on Shepherd Drive in my hometown Houston, Texas to place my order because the dining room was reserved for “whites […]
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I had a question and I realized as frustrating as this for me, there are others wrestling with this same struggle. I would love for you to answer as well as post the question on your site. The question is…. How do you show (not tell) someone that they are deeply loved and show (not […]
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By Denise Anderson Despite the fact that I have a very public personal blog that gets read (or at least viewed) by thousands of people all across the world, I’m actually an intensely private person. There are certain things I just don’t talk about that often, not even with friends. ?But today I’m going to […]
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VIDEO: When entering into an agreement…it’s good to have roles and responsibilities clearly defined to minimize the possibility of confusion, conflict, and drama! The same goes for a relationship. Role definition is good. However, couples tend to experience problems when they allow someone or something outside of themselves to determine what those roles should be […]
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Are We Ruining Our Women?
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One, Black Men, Black Women, Love & Marriage/byBy Ilex Bien-Aime I hear men complaining about damaged women all of the time. If you were to listen to most men, you would believe that we are always the correct and sane sex, while women are crazy and always wrong. Too bad life is never really that black and white. Long before the book […]
Is Marriage For White People? That’s A Dumb-A*% Question!
/in A Woman's Point Of View, Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at Okay, so pardon my profanity in the title of this article. But, that’s how I really feel. I haven’t said much in response to the book “Is Marriage For White People” by Stanford Law Professor Ralph Richard Banks. The book has received a whole lot of press and Professor Banks has gotten […]
A Married Couples Biggest Mistake-Don’t Let It Happen In Your Marriage
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage, Outside Interference, Quality Time/byBy Tzvi Nightingale Not long ago I heard about a couple who were calling it quits and getting a divorce. They are not new in their marriage. In fact, they have been married for many years. The gentleman explained to me that it was not over anything dramatic such as an affair or significant change […]
I Have To Holla At My Man
/in Becoming One, Communication, Love & Marriage/byBy Lana Moline Tonight at about 9:15pm, long after the kids are asleep and we’ve both showered, I’m going to holla at my man. It’s been a minute since we’ve had one of these talks and I just can’t wait any longer. With all the running, working and responsibilities of life maybe I neglected to […]
Women…What Do You Think Contributes To Marriage Stability?
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byBy Thesigan Nadarajan It is the hope of the author that this article will be of theoretical and practical use to the readers (especially those who are married) to understand that marriage stability is not only possible but attainable. However, it requires couples to work together as partners to make their marriage a stable and life-long experience. […]
I Need To Stop Focussing On My Wife’s Faults And Instead Focus On Overcoming Mine
/in A Man's Point Of View, Becoming One, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byBy Ilex Bien-Aime I always strive to be transparent with my wife but I realized that maybe I am not being transparent with myself. Maybe it’s easier for me to point out all of the negative traits that she brings to the table and inadvertently gloss over my own. Could I be the one who […]
Are You Afraid Of Muslims? A September 11th Reflection
/in Becoming One, Black Family/byCourtesy of The Pastor Rudy Experience My encounters with racism and intolerance came early in life. When I wanted barbecue, I would have to go to the widow at the rear of John Davis’ Barbecue on Shepherd Drive in my hometown Houston, Texas to place my order because the dining room was reserved for “whites […]
Yes I Love You… BUT I Don’t Need You
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage/byI had a question and I realized as frustrating as this for me, there are others wrestling with this same struggle. I would love for you to answer as well as post the question on your site. The question is…. How do you show (not tell) someone that they are deeply loved and show (not […]
Scheduling Sex….The End Of Spontaneity?
/in Becoming One, Sex & Intimacy/byBy Denise Anderson Despite the fact that I have a very public personal blog that gets read (or at least viewed) by thousands of people all across the world, I’m actually an intensely private person. There are certain things I just don’t talk about that often, not even with friends. ?But today I’m going to […]
Should Women Cook & Clean And Men Pay Bills & Provide?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Communication, Conflict Management, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: When entering into an agreement…it’s good to have roles and responsibilities clearly defined to minimize the possibility of confusion, conflict, and drama! The same goes for a relationship. Role definition is good. However, couples tend to experience problems when they allow someone or something outside of themselves to determine what those roles should be […]