By Aiyana Ma’at How does it feel to tell your story? It can be a little scary. It is exciting. It brings hope and healing to your heart. It is definitely freeing. You have the opportunity to work with Ayize and I and allow us to help you pull the lessons from the drama and […]
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By Susan Krauss Whitbourne, Ph.D. That crazy thing we call love is perhaps one of the most studied and least understood areas in psychology. One reason is that many studies of romantic relationships are carried out not in real life, but in the lab. Making matters worse, many of these studies involve dating relationships between samples of […]
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By Randi Kreger Are you who are overly empathetic, self-sacrificing, generous, perfectionistic, deferential, more willing to put other’s needs before your own, and uncomfortable with conflict? Then you are more vulnerable to being emotional caretaker, according to Margalis Fjelstad’s new book, Stop Caretaking The Borderline/Narcissist In Your Life: Let Go Of Their Life And get a Life […]
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VIDEO: by Ayize Ma’at When you are in a relationship it’s extremely important that trust and respect are present. If one of these key ingredients is missing it’s likely the other is absent as well. In this webisode we show you what trust is all about as we discuss an incident where my wife caught […]
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By Darrell A. Cador In the midst of all that was, is, and is to be, the one consistency in the life of a Black Man is the presence of his cherished Black Woman. Whether he’s aware of this or not is a matter of perspective. Yet, her profound role in the evolution of this […]
By Karl Augustine Having a marriage problem can be agonizing especially if you’re trying to do all you can to make your marriage work. Depending on how your marriage was prior to thinking that you had a marriage problem, you could be in for a hurtful time if you don’t take a step back and […]
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By Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S Even though the holidays are about loved ones, they somehow don’t leave much time for couples to connect. Between added responsibilities and family obligations, it might seem like you’re spending less and less time together. Or maybe quantity isn’t the issue, but quality time is. “It is very important for couples to remember that although they […]
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By Priya Shah This article could have been titled “Three Thoughtful Reasons NOT To Change A Person,” because it applies to everyone, man or woman. But since women are usually the ones trying to change men, it seemed more appropriate to address it to you girls. If there’s one thing that all those years of […]
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By Steve East No marriage is perfect. That is a given. Yours might be “on the rocks,” with an additional burden of discovering that your spouse “cheated” on you! It might seem hopeless at the moment, but there is one method that really “works” to save the whole situation. I will propose a […]
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By Aiyana Ma’at I cannot begin to tell you how many times over the years I’ve sat with clients and talked about…….their parents and the impact that their parents (whether present or absent) are having on their lives and the life of their relationship. To truly know yourself and grow there’s no detour around your […]
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An Opportunity To Tell Your Story Of Infidelity On O.W.N. (…and Help Heal Somebody)
/in B Intentional NEWS, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at How does it feel to tell your story? It can be a little scary. It is exciting. It brings hope and healing to your heart. It is definitely freeing. You have the opportunity to work with Ayize and I and allow us to help you pull the lessons from the drama and […]
Passionate Love Exists Even In Long Term Relationships
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Susan Krauss Whitbourne, Ph.D. That crazy thing we call love is perhaps one of the most studied and least understood areas in psychology. One reason is that many studies of romantic relationships are carried out not in real life, but in the lab. Making matters worse, many of these studies involve dating relationships between samples of […]
Trapped In The Role Of Being An Emotional Caretaker
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Randi Kreger Are you who are overly empathetic, self-sacrificing, generous, perfectionistic, deferential, more willing to put other’s needs before your own, and uncomfortable with conflict? Then you are more vulnerable to being emotional caretaker, according to Margalis Fjelstad’s new book, Stop Caretaking The Borderline/Narcissist In Your Life: Let Go Of Their Life And get a Life […]
WIFE (Aiyana) caught HUSBAND (Ayize) Looking At Another Womans Butt + Outtake at End
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage/byVIDEO: by Ayize Ma’at When you are in a relationship it’s extremely important that trust and respect are present. If one of these key ingredients is missing it’s likely the other is absent as well. In this webisode we show you what trust is all about as we discuss an incident where my wife caught […]
A Black Woman’s Worth
/in A Man's Point Of View, Black Women, Love & Marriage/byBy Darrell A. Cador In the midst of all that was, is, and is to be, the one consistency in the life of a Black Man is the presence of his cherished Black Woman. Whether he’s aware of this or not is a matter of perspective. Yet, her profound role in the evolution of this […]
Is Your Marriage Problem Severe Enough To Warrant Getting A Divorce?
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Karl Augustine Having a marriage problem can be agonizing especially if you’re trying to do all you can to make your marriage work. Depending on how your marriage was prior to thinking that you had a marriage problem, you could be in for a hurtful time if you don’t take a step back and […]
Stay Connected During The Holiday Season With These 6 Steps
/in Love & Marriage/byBy Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S Even though the holidays are about loved ones, they somehow don’t leave much time for couples to connect. Between added responsibilities and family obligations, it might seem like you’re spending less and less time together. Or maybe quantity isn’t the issue, but quality time is. “It is very important for couples to remember that although they […]
Three Thoughtful Reasons NOT To Change A Man
/in Black Men, Love & Marriage/byBy Priya Shah This article could have been titled “Three Thoughtful Reasons NOT To Change A Person,” because it applies to everyone, man or woman. But since women are usually the ones trying to change men, it seemed more appropriate to address it to you girls. If there’s one thing that all those years of […]
Saving Your Marriage Needs “ONE” Vital Ingredient!
/in Becoming One, Love & Marriage, Quality Time/byBy Steve East No marriage is perfect. That is a given. Yours might be “on the rocks,” with an additional burden of discovering that your spouse “cheated” on you! It might seem hopeless at the moment, but there is one method that really “works” to save the whole situation. I will propose a […]
You Are Not Your Parents: Learn From Their Strengths & Their Shortcomings
/in Inspiration, Love & Marriage, Parenting/byBy Aiyana Ma’at I cannot begin to tell you how many times over the years I’ve sat with clients and talked about…….their parents and the impact that their parents (whether present or absent) are having on their lives and the life of their relationship. To truly know yourself and grow there’s no detour around your […]