By Team BLAM We are hard at work and and in the midst of developing several online courses along with various multi-media products to provide you with even deeper examination of the topics you say you want to hear about most. We want you to know that we are listening so please keep on giving […]
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By Neysa Ellery Taylor When my husband was actively cheating on me, there was a reoccurring thought that kept running through my mind – “I’ll show him!” It was normally accompanied by some variation of this, “He’s gotta be out of his mind. I am fine. I am smart. I am a great catch! This […]
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By Ayize Ma’at Love is complicated. Tucked beneath the coquettish glances, tender touches, and whispered sweet nothings exist a hidden side. A side that is hollow, drab, painful….questioned. At BlackLoveAndMarriage.com we strive to capture love in it’s entirety. Our audience appreciates us for that. We show you the good, the bad, and the ugly aspects […]
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By Charles Calvert Somewhere down its path, your nuptials went south, and may even have been furthermore rocked by an affair. If your marriage is in this predicament, you know all too well how your once-happy “union” can begin to feel like unpaid, overtime work. There isn’t a way to not do the work when […]
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By Neysa Ellery Taylor For the past 72 hours, I’ve been taking body shots. No, not the type of body shot that involves drinking liquor off some strangers belly. I am talking about the world of boxing and the body shots that come from having hard blows hitting you in the stomach. That is the […]
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By Neysa Ellery Taylor Yesterday, I wrote about the day my husband’s sons were born. I wrote about the range of emotions that I felt and how ill prepared I was to handle those emotions. Today, I am writing about 365 days later. Today is the boys’ birthday. Who would have thought that I would […]
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By Neysa Ellery Taylor A year ago, the phone rang and I received phone call that I knew was coming but that I dreaded nonetheless. My husband called to tell me that his mistress was in labor. Of course, I knew this day would come. I mean I’m not slow. I knew that she was pregnant […]
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By Doug We’ve talked many times about the harmful effects of triggers for the victim and the necessity for the cheating spouse to maintain a no contact rule in order for a couple to have a chance at recovering from an affair. Another important rule that I feel needs to be enforced is a no […]
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By Neysa Ellery Taylor Fellas, you didn’t think I was going to let you off that easy, (An Open Letter To Single Sisters: He’s Married LEAVE HIM ALONE), did you? Come on.. You know me better than that. Why is it so hard to stay faithful to one woman? Since we’ve been communicating for awhile, […]
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By Katie Lersch Many spouses aren’t sure if they should tell their family about their spouse’s affair or cheating. Many times, they would really like their family’s support. But, in the case of many wives and husbands, they’re also worried that their family will think differently about their spouse and this may be a concern […]
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INFIDELITY: Understanding The Pain Of Cheating & The Pathway To Healing. No Excuses. Register Today For $10!
/in B Intentional NEWS, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Team BLAM We are hard at work and and in the midst of developing several online courses along with various multi-media products to provide you with even deeper examination of the topics you say you want to hear about most. We want you to know that we are listening so please keep on giving […]
Revenge Is Best….NOT SERVED
/in Becoming One, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Neysa Ellery Taylor When my husband was actively cheating on me, there was a reoccurring thought that kept running through my mind – “I’ll show him!” It was normally accompanied by some variation of this, “He’s gotta be out of his mind. I am fine. I am smart. I am a great catch! This […]
Get Out Of My Life..Out Of My Hair..Out Of My Mind..THERE’S NO LOVE IN THERE!
/in Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Love & Marriage/byBy Ayize Ma’at Love is complicated. Tucked beneath the coquettish glances, tender touches, and whispered sweet nothings exist a hidden side. A side that is hollow, drab, painful….questioned. At BlackLoveAndMarriage.com we strive to capture love in it’s entirety. Our audience appreciates us for that. We show you the good, the bad, and the ugly aspects […]
Affair Recovery 101: Build New Memories Through Dating
/in Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Charles Calvert Somewhere down its path, your nuptials went south, and may even have been furthermore rocked by an affair. If your marriage is in this predicament, you know all too well how your once-happy “union” can begin to feel like unpaid, overtime work. There isn’t a way to not do the work when […]
I Don’t Condemn Anyone For Choosing To Divorce & I Believe No One Should Condemn Me For Making My Marriage Work
/in Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Love & Marriage, motherhood, Outside Interference/byBy Neysa Ellery Taylor For the past 72 hours, I’ve been taking body shots. No, not the type of body shot that involves drinking liquor off some strangers belly. I am talking about the world of boxing and the body shots that come from having hard blows hitting you in the stomach. That is the […]
I Was Frustrated, Disappointed, And Mad As Hell…BUT…What A Difference A Year Makes (Part 2)
/in A Woman's Point Of View, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Love & Marriage, motherhood, Parenting/byBy Neysa Ellery Taylor Yesterday, I wrote about the day my husband’s sons were born. I wrote about the range of emotions that I felt and how ill prepared I was to handle those emotions. Today, I am writing about 365 days later. Today is the boys’ birthday. Who would have thought that I would […]
I Was Frustrated, Disappointed, And Mad As Hell…BUT…What A Difference A Year Makes (Part 1)
/in A Woman's Point Of View, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Love & Marriage, motherhood, Parenting/byBy Neysa Ellery Taylor A year ago, the phone rang and I received phone call that I knew was coming but that I dreaded nonetheless. My husband called to tell me that his mistress was in labor. Of course, I knew this day would come. I mean I’m not slow. I knew that she was pregnant […]
After The Affair: The No Contact Rule Goes Both Ways
/in Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Doug We’ve talked many times about the harmful effects of triggers for the victim and the necessity for the cheating spouse to maintain a no contact rule in order for a couple to have a chance at recovering from an affair. Another important rule that I feel needs to be enforced is a no […]
An Open Letter To Married Men: She Ain’t Your Wife….LEAVE HER ALONE!
/in A Woman's Point Of View, Black Men, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Neysa Ellery Taylor Fellas, you didn’t think I was going to let you off that easy, (An Open Letter To Single Sisters: He’s Married LEAVE HIM ALONE), did you? Come on.. You know me better than that. Why is it so hard to stay faithful to one woman? Since we’ve been communicating for awhile, […]
Should You Tell Your Family About Your Spouse’s Affair?
/in Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byBy Katie Lersch Many spouses aren’t sure if they should tell their family about their spouse’s affair or cheating. Many times, they would really like their family’s support. But, in the case of many wives and husbands, they’re also worried that their family will think differently about their spouse and this may be a concern […]