By Joseph Matthews My friends, a question for you… You have heard the term “Nice guys finish last”, correct? Well, I’m here to tell you that saying is 100% true! But not for the reasons you may think. Being a “Nice Guy” with women doesn’t work, not because you get too caught […]
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VIDEO: Dear MA’AT’s I’m 20 years old in college and I met this girl about a year ago. We became friends and became very close but right now, she told me she’s not looking for a relationship due to the fact she broke up with her ex-boyfriend of two years over a year ago. She […]
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Video/Question From Viewer Hello Ma’ats, Firstly, thank you for all the work you do. You guys are great, your advice is mature and balanced. And this is why I am coming for you to get advice on a certain issue. I am 21 years old and the person I am in love with is 22. […]
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By Aiyana Ma’at Recently, Ayize and I were asked to participate in a Dating & Relationships panel that explored the dynamics of dating here in our hometown–the DMV. The event was hosted and put on by our new friend Krystal Glass of KrystalGlassEmpire.com. We were joined on the panel by author, journalist, and pop culture […]
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VIDEO: I’m so glad I came across your channel on you tube. You guys are great. Here is my situation. My bf and I have been dating for close to three years. He is 35 and I am 34 and we do not have kids. We are both college grads. I want to be engaged […]
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Viewer Letter: I saw your videos and find them very informational and helping to those like myself who are hurting. I have a question? I am a giver of myself to all and anyone who shows me the slightest interest of what I perceive is love/ attention. I hate myself and don’t believe I will ever love myself until I first fix what is wrong with me. My outer beauty will never match my inside but I am […]
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VIDEO: A lot of times when we focus on something obsessively the issue is rarely the thing that we focus on but rather an underlying longing. In this video we speak to a man that thinks women are not attracted to him because he’s ugly. He’s tired of being rejected and feeling like the dirt […]
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Question: My boyfriend and I are quite green in our relationship. We’ve been together for almost two months. So we are still getting to know quite a bit about each other. I am so happy being with him he makes me laugh and keeps me smiling…:-( We both are waiting until marriage, this is his […]
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Hey Blam Fam, We’re really excited about the opportunity to be panelist discussing relationship dynamics with other astute minds at the Black Love Bond event tonight at 7pm EST. We will be sharing the spotlight with Helena Andrews (author of “Bitch Is The New Black”), Neecee Simmons (founder of Wifey N Training), Panama Jackson (co-founder […]
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VIDEO: Hello, I have me a nice young man and from the beginning we clicked. He brought up sex and I said no sex before marriage because I’ve been there and done that. I have a beautiful 18yrd old daughter that means the world to me. ..anyway so his reply was okay lets get married […]
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Is Being “Mr. Nice Guy” Getting In The Way Of Your Love Life?
/in Black Men, Singles & Dating/byBy Joseph Matthews My friends, a question for you… You have heard the term “Nice guys finish last”, correct? Well, I’m here to tell you that saying is 100% true! But not for the reasons you may think. Being a “Nice Guy” with women doesn’t work, not because you get too caught […]
Am I Delusional For Thinking About Building A Family With Someone I’m Not EVEN In A Relationship With?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Singles & Dating/byVIDEO: Dear MA’AT’s I’m 20 years old in college and I met this girl about a year ago. We became friends and became very close but right now, she told me she’s not looking for a relationship due to the fact she broke up with her ex-boyfriend of two years over a year ago. She […]
I’m Afraid To Commit Because Of The Distance
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Singles & Dating/byVideo/Question From Viewer Hello Ma’ats, Firstly, thank you for all the work you do. You guys are great, your advice is mature and balanced. And this is why I am coming for you to get advice on a certain issue. I am 21 years old and the person I am in love with is 22. […]
VIDEO RECAP: The Black Love Bond “Dating In DC” Event Was So Much Fun!
/in Love & Marriage, Singles & Dating/byBy Aiyana Ma’at Recently, Ayize and I were asked to participate in a Dating & Relationships panel that explored the dynamics of dating here in our hometown–the DMV. The event was hosted and put on by our new friend Krystal Glass of KrystalGlassEmpire.com. We were joined on the panel by author, journalist, and pop culture […]
My Man Wants To Marry Me…But I’m Concerned Because He’s Not Self Sufficient
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Becoming One, Singles & Dating/byVIDEO: I’m so glad I came across your channel on you tube. You guys are great. Here is my situation. My bf and I have been dating for close to three years. He is 35 and I am 34 and we do not have kids. We are both college grads. I want to be engaged […]
My Past Keeps Popping Up In My Present Relationship
/in Singles & Dating/byViewer Letter: I saw your videos and find them very informational and helping to those like myself who are hurting. I have a question? I am a giver of myself to all and anyone who shows me the slightest interest of what I perceive is love/ attention. I hate myself and don’t believe I will ever love myself until I first fix what is wrong with me. My outer beauty will never match my inside but I am […]
Stop Focusing On Sex. Start Focusing On Yourself.
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Sex & Intimacy, Singles & Dating/byVIDEO: A lot of times when we focus on something obsessively the issue is rarely the thing that we focus on but rather an underlying longing. In this video we speak to a man that thinks women are not attracted to him because he’s ugly. He’s tired of being rejected and feeling like the dirt […]
I’ve Got Issues With The Fact That My Man Doesn’t Think The Way I Do
/in Singles & Dating/byQuestion: My boyfriend and I are quite green in our relationship. We’ve been together for almost two months. So we are still getting to know quite a bit about each other. I am so happy being with him he makes me laugh and keeps me smiling…:-( We both are waiting until marriage, this is his […]
Join Us Tonight At The Black Love Bond: Dating In DC Panel Discussion
/in B Intentional NEWS, Love & Marriage, Singles & Dating/byHey Blam Fam, We’re really excited about the opportunity to be panelist discussing relationship dynamics with other astute minds at the Black Love Bond event tonight at 7pm EST. We will be sharing the spotlight with Helena Andrews (author of “Bitch Is The New Black”), Neecee Simmons (founder of Wifey N Training), Panama Jackson (co-founder […]
I Just Found Out My Man Is HIV Positive And A Pedophile
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Singles & Dating/byVIDEO: Hello, I have me a nice young man and from the beginning we clicked. He brought up sex and I said no sex before marriage because I’ve been there and done that. I have a beautiful 18yrd old daughter that means the world to me. ..anyway so his reply was okay lets get married […]