I'm In Love With My Friend!

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VIDEO: How well do you and your mate know each other? Can you truly call each other friends? Are you still getting to know your mate and exploring all that they are and have yet to become? How does a couple avoid the dangers of just being in each other’s presence versus being fully present with one another? Listen in as the Ma’at’s provide a simple yet often forgotten method for maintaining the friendship and divorce proofing your marriage.

QUESTION: What ways do you stay connected and keep the friendship alive  in your relationship?

I Don't Want To Be Like My Mother

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VIDEO: Do you sometimes look at your relatives and wonder “Why do I have to be a part of this family?” Sometimes, because of the irresponsibility we’re surrounded by we begin to question whether we are destined to go down that same path. While it may be difficult to firmly plant both feet on the road less traveled (i.e., TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR LIFE) ….PLEASE, PLEASE remember it is possible. You can write your own book and paint your own portrait….it’s up to you. You first have to make a decision and then you have to STOP PLAYING AND START PUSHING.

It's Already In You

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VIDEO: Do you know that there are some specific things you came into existence to do, accomplish, manifest, and master? Do you have some things you’d like to accomplish in your lifetime? Most of us do. But, with so much competing for our attention daily we can lose sight of the things that give our lives meaning and purpose. Well, don’t worry. While we can lose sight at times there is one thing that we cannot lose. You cannot lose it because it’s aready in you.  Listen in and be moved…

Interview With Couple Married For Over 66 years!

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VIDEO: We absolutely love this video put together by our friends from the Youtube Ebony Love & Marriage channel! They do great work promoting positive images of Black folks & Marriage. Listen to the wisdom of our elders who at the time of this interview had been married for 66 years. With the marriage divorce rate for ALL couples in America (regardless of race) being over 50%, there is much wisdom that we cannot afford to ignore from our elders. They stayed together through trials that people refuse to endure today. They even survived infidelity! People dismiss their “til’ death do us part” vows as if they were dinner reservations–at the slightest sign of unhappiness, instead of working on it.  Check out the Ebony Love & Marriage channel under the Great Links section.

Do All Black Men Cheat?

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VIDEO: Unfortunately, black men as a whole get a bad rap for the irresponsible behaviors that some of us engage in. Black men have been characterized as “sex obsessed” and unfaithful within the African American community. While many women embrace these ideas…Ayize Ma’at challenges you to consider that the behavior of a “few” does not dictate  the actions of “all” when it comes to black men.

My Friend Is Marrying The Wrong Man!

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VIDEO: This woman writes in that her friend is marrying a “bad person” and she feels that her friend is being blinded by her desperate desire to have a husband. Is it her responsibility to convince her friend that her fiancee’ is the wrong guy or should she keep her opinion to herself? Aiyana Ma’at weighs in on this one solo. Listen in & then leave a comment and let us know what you would do.

Date Night Alert! Come Out & Support & Celebrate Black Love & Marriage!!!

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WE’RE PUTTING

BLACK LOVE & BLACK MARRIAGE

ON BLAST!!!


Who?

Relationship & Life Coaches/Co-Founders of B Intentional, LLC, Ayize & Aiyana Ma’at

What?

B Intentional Presents: “Party With A Purpose!”

On this night we will Lift Up and Celebrate Black Love & Black Marriage!

When?

June 12, 2010 at 8pm. Don’t miss your moment! Be on time!

Where?

Martin’s Crosswinds @ 7499 Greenway Center Drive; Greenbelt, MD 20770

Why?

Listen below to find out!


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It's Easier To Avoid Than To Resist…

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VIDEO: This husband writes that he has a good wife yet he still deals with attraction to other women.  Is this normal or does this brother have issues?? What do you think B Intentional family? Marinate on this question and let us know how you feel. QUESTION: Do you want to know if your mate is attracted to someone else? Is this helpful or harmful to share with each other?

Are You Keeping It Real?

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VIDEO: What does it mean to truly keep it real in our relationships? Here, we will explore what it means to bring your “Real Self” to your relationship versus your “Contrived Self”. I believe we all have 2 selves. However, our goal should be to operate from our truest and most authentic self…especially in what’s supposed to be one of our most intimate relationships. But, far too often, I find that we are “fronting” and “perpetrating” in our relationships—scared to let the true you totally come out.

QUESTION: How can we, as human beings, stop being so concerned with how we appear, sound, and look to our loved ones and the world and focus more on keeping it real? What are the risks of keeping it real?

My Way Or The Highway

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VIDEO: Is there more than one way to do things? “Of, course!”, you say. Well, then why is it so hard for us to merge our thoughts, ideas, and opinions with our mate? We come to our relationships with very strong opinions, ideas, and thoughts about what is right or wrong, left or right, and up and down! The moment our mate challenges our thinking we are ready to get in the ring–boxing gloves and all!  What’s up with that? What makes your truth the only truth?