Stop Focusing On Sex. Start Focusing On Yourself.

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VIDEO: A lot of times when we focus on something obsessively the issue is rarely the thing that we focus on but rather an underlying longing. In this video we speak to a man that thinks women are not attracted to him because he’s ugly. He’s tired of being rejected and feeling like the dirt underneath women’s feet.

It is sooooooooooooooo important to understand that any time someone is experiencing a feeling chronically (chronic=continuing over a long time and happening frequently) IT IS ALMOST ALWAYS A MAJOR INDICATOR THAT THE PROBLEM LIES WITHIN meaning it’s our own perception and consciousness that is tripping us up not the world around us. Our desire is for this advice to inspire this young man and so many others to look within for the answers instead of continually outside of himself. We encourage you to start the process by purchasing our SPEAK LOVE RIGHT PACKAGE.  The first exercise in the workbook is all about taking self inventory and asking the question, “Who Am I?”

At the end of the day, no matter how our issues manifest….no matter what they look like…..no matter how complex our situations are: Self-Acceptance & Self-Love are always the answer. Radical love of self is always the bottom line.

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I Just Found Out My Man Is HIV Positive And A Pedophile

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VIDEO: Hello, I have me a nice young man and from the beginning we clicked.  He brought up sex and I said no sex before marriage because I’ve been there and done that.  I have a beautiful 18yrd old daughter that means the world to me. ..anyway so his reply was okay lets get married and we will get to know each other better afterwards.  To be honest it had me thinking should i or shouldnt I? After that I ran across a conversation between him and two of his family members and they were all in a heated argument and the two family members stated that he is HIV/AIDS POSITIVE AND ALSO A PEDOPHILE.  I was stunned by what i was reading.  He does stay sick a lot and he doesn’t look too healthy, but he’s a really nice guy.  My question is I dont how to bring it up to ask him and I definitely need to pump the brakes from him meeting my daughter or coming to my home before i know the TRUTH.  PLEASE HELP WHAT TO DO? And to add to everything he’s taking on to my daughter way too fast. I’ve only let them speak on the phone..and one day he offered to pick her up from college without me present. I said oh no if i let you pick her up it will be with me.  He didnt have a problem with it but it was just strange to me that he even asked. I need some answers i dont want to drag it out any longer and hurt his feelings.

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Am I Setting Myself Up To Be Cheated On By Asking My Man To Wait Til Marriage For Sex?

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Video: I am a 21 year old female who all of a sudden got the idea to wait.  But every time i turn around people like to point out how impossible that is …..not for me but for the guy. They say even if he waits for me he will still get “it” somewhere else. I’m young and the people around me are young. I’m not really sure if i have some unrealistic expectation or what. I guess my question to you both would be is waiting until marriage unrealistic? Can a man stay completely faithful the whole time? My idea to wait is not set in stone so please give it to me straight.

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My Man Doesn’t See A Problem Flirting With Other Women

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Have you noticed your spouse or significant other paying too much attention to the opposite sex? Are they too talkative? Does your spouse have no respect for the opposite gender’s personal space. Are they flirting and making excuses for it? In this video we answer the question of a viewer who is experiencing tension in her relationship because her man is flirting with women and minimizing it. Listen in as we shed some light on the situation and school him about what it means to be in a real relationship. Class in session.

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My Man Refuses To Help Around The House….HELLPP!!!!!

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BLAM FAM help this viewer out by letting her know what you think.

Video: My husband and I have been married for a long time but I have just recently started working full time. I thought it would be a good idea to set some guidelines for household responsibilities since i am no longer at home as freqently as I used to be. I thought it would be a good idea for whoever cooks the other cleans the kitchen and puts the food away and for us to both do the laundry on Saturday. He thinks this is a bad idea but doesn’t have a better solution. How can I get him to see this is the best way to keep our house clean and our children clothed in clean clothes? HOw can i get him on board?

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My Husband Is Addicted To GETTING Oral Sex But NEVER Wants to GIVE IT…Why???

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VIDEO: My Husband is addicted to oral sex but refuses to give me the same pleasure. We have been together 6 years and have got married 2 months ago. I don’t know what to do. I love him but I feel if i can do it without a moments hesitation, he should be able to do the same.Can you guys help me?

BLAM FAM…What do yall think?

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Is It Time To “Check In”…Is It Time To “Connect”?

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VIDEO:  Every now and then we take a time out from answering the many questions we have about relationships and intentionally choose to “check in” on camera.  In this video we definitely “check in” with each other as we talk about the great “connecting” we’ve been doing lately.  We encourage yall to check in with your spouse from time to time so that you can stay in tune and in touch with each other.

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Are Black Men FOR Monogamy?

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VIDEO: We are all familiar with the stereotype that “all black men are dogs”. At the urging of a viewer we explore that notion and reveal that while some men may act a particular way…it certainly does not mean ALL men do. This black man wrote in and asked “How do we explain to black women that most black men are all for monogamous relationships?

We believe that there are a number of things that come into play when examining the perceptions that are out here around black men. However, with that being said the best way black men can continue to combat negative perceptions & stereotypes is through how they live their lives on a day to day basis. It’s how you carry yourself. It’s the kind of example you intentionally set for other young brothas. Actions always destroy words cause’ talk is cheap. It’ how you walk that will ultimately speak for you. Keep stepping strong black men. Keep stepping!

 

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I Deserve More Than A Wedding At The Courthouse

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VIDEO: My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 9 years.  He had been unfaithful for approximately the middle three years of our relationship, but has been faithful for the last three years.  During those three years of unfaithfulness, he was also very irresponsible financially, which has left him with a staggering six-figure debt.  We are finally at a place where we would both like to get married at the same time, but I am afraid that we will not be able to afford a decent wedding with his staggering debt.  As we are not married yet, and I had nothing to do with the debt, I don’t feel comfortable with helping hiim pay it down.  I couldn’t afford to if I wanted to.  Please bear in mind that for me, the marriage is more important than the wedding day, but after nine long years together, I want something more than just an anticlimatic jaunt to the courthouse to make our union legal.  Do you have any advice for me? BLAM FAM what do yall think?  Do you think she deserves more than a courthouse ceremony because she’s “earned it”?  Should she help him pay down his debt once they’re married?  What suggestions would you give her?

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What Does It Take To Have Lasting Love?

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Your ability to experience lasting love is predicated on your willingness to be vulnerable in your thoughts, with your words, and what it is that you do.  Until you take the risk to be vulnerable….true love will only be a fantasy.  Take a risk and transform your fantasy for a more abiding and intimate connection with your partner into a reality by wrestling through the uncomfortability of thinking how you can please your partner, speaking words of affirmation and love, and doing things for your spouse that demonstrate love even when you don’t want to.  Are you willing to be vulnerable and do something different?

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