letter Cont’d My saving grace… After prayer and much conviction, I sought out one of my other good friends ( a godly woman, that lives her life according to the word). I confessed my sins to her and explained what I was going through and she was very understanding and referred me right to the […]
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What’s up Fam, Thanks for all of your prayers. The surgery was successful and Asante is doing well. He’s on pain meds (epidural) right now which will be gradually reduced over the next couple of days. Today was his first day of physical training which consisted of getting out of the bed : ) Thanks […]
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VIDEO: My husband has been cheating 4 years out of the 4 years we’ve been married. I’ve been supportive to this man through all the ups and downs. He came into to the marriage with nothing and I help build him up to be stable. I never it up. However, this man just don’t […]
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There’s been a bit of tension in the Ma’at home over the past couple of days. I’ve been a bit grumpy and agitated by the slightest of things. Aiyana has been more quiet than usual. There’s been this uneasiness infecting the typically pleasant atmosphere in our home. I raise my hand and acknowledge that I’m […]
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Family we’re 4 days out from our son’s second hip surgery and this morning he made a comment which caught me totally off guard. I took some time to sit still and deal with some of my emotions surrounding his upcoming surgery. In the end I rest on the fact that I’m not in control….GOD […]
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Part 2 of letter: My best friend, who is bisexual, knew of my past. However I didn’t open up to her until after she told me she was bisexual and was always attracted to me. We had been friends a long time before I knew this about her. I never had a clue. Once she […]
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By Aiyana Ma’at It’s amazing to me how sickness can pass through the house and the main one who always seems to be “man down” is my husband. I love him to death but dude really? lol I know I’m not the only one in this boat because ALL of my girlfriends say the exact […]
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What does it mean to live in authentic connection? Authenticity is permission we give ourselves to be real, to be who we are, consciously aware of warts and graces. This permission frees us to give and live in relation to our self and others, especially key others, from a place of love, and not fear. Authenticity […]
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I first I want to say that I love reading your blog. I love watching you guys together, your chemistry is real. I also love your sense of humor as well…it puts a smile on my face and keeps me going! Seriously. Anyway, I’m just so overwhelmed in my life and marriage that I dont […]
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When we watched Iyanla “Fix My Life” last week, we were like WOW!! We were stunned at how the show went down. The show featured DMX and apparently was supposed to be solely focussed on his addiction to women. Wrong!!! This episode focussed on his addiction to women for hot second and then shifted to […]
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I’m Struggling With Same Sex Attraction Part 3
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Sex & Intimacy/byletter Cont’d My saving grace… After prayer and much conviction, I sought out one of my other good friends ( a godly woman, that lives her life according to the word). I confessed my sins to her and explained what I was going through and she was very understanding and referred me right to the […]
Thank You For Your Prayers…Surgery Was Successful!
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Black Family/byWhat’s up Fam, Thanks for all of your prayers. The surgery was successful and Asante is doing well. He’s on pain meds (epidural) right now which will be gradually reduced over the next couple of days. Today was his first day of physical training which consisted of getting out of the bed : ) Thanks […]
I’ve Been Married For 4 Years and For 4 Years I’ve Been Cheated On
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs/byVIDEO: My husband has been cheating 4 years out of the 4 years we’ve been married. I’ve been supportive to this man through all the ups and downs. He came into to the marriage with nothing and I help build him up to be stable. I never it up. However, this man just don’t […]
What Do You Do When Both Of You Are Weak?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage/byThere’s been a bit of tension in the Ma’at home over the past couple of days. I’ve been a bit grumpy and agitated by the slightest of things. Aiyana has been more quiet than usual. There’s been this uneasiness infecting the typically pleasant atmosphere in our home. I raise my hand and acknowledge that I’m […]
You Are Not In Control
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Living With Intention/byFamily we’re 4 days out from our son’s second hip surgery and this morning he made a comment which caught me totally off guard. I took some time to sit still and deal with some of my emotions surrounding his upcoming surgery. In the end I rest on the fact that I’m not in control….GOD […]
I’m Struggling With Same Sex Attraction Part 2
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Infidelity, Cheating & Affairs, Sex & Intimacy/byPart 2 of letter: My best friend, who is bisexual, knew of my past. However I didn’t open up to her until after she told me she was bisexual and was always attracted to me. We had been friends a long time before I knew this about her. I never had a clue. Once she […]
My Husband Is A Big Baby Sometimes…Is Yours?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage/byBy Aiyana Ma’at It’s amazing to me how sickness can pass through the house and the main one who always seems to be “man down” is my husband. I love him to death but dude really? lol I know I’m not the only one in this boat because ALL of my girlfriends say the exact […]
Are You Paralyzed By Fear In Your Relationship?
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers/byWhat does it mean to live in authentic connection? Authenticity is permission we give ourselves to be real, to be who we are, consciously aware of warts and graces. This permission frees us to give and live in relation to our self and others, especially key others, from a place of love, and not fear. Authenticity […]
I’m Struggling With Same Sex Attraction Part 1
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Love & Marriage, Sex & Intimacy/byI first I want to say that I love reading your blog. I love watching you guys together, your chemistry is real. I also love your sense of humor as well…it puts a smile on my face and keeps me going! Seriously. Anyway, I’m just so overwhelmed in my life and marriage that I dont […]
DMX and Iyanla “Fix My Life” In Review
/in Ask The Maat's Real Questions...Real Answers, Black Celebrity Couples/byWhen we watched Iyanla “Fix My Life” last week, we were like WOW!! We were stunned at how the show went down. The show featured DMX and apparently was supposed to be solely focussed on his addiction to women. Wrong!!! This episode focussed on his addiction to women for hot second and then shifted to […]